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12月14日

Tis the season to blow most of your moolah BIG goodbye kisses

 
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In today's over-commercialized economy, it's not very hard to see how our society has been conditioned to make money the forefront of everyday living, especially during the holidays. Majority of infamous Christmas trends have substituted the kind act of giving from the heart into the form of giving that only comes from the depency and convenience of cash. Christmas is no longer about going the extra mile to spend quality time with the ones we love or forcing ourselves to think outside the box when it comes to expressing what people TRULY mean to us. With all the advertising Christmas has received in terms of buying the "perfect" gift for people we consider to be important, we have automatically been taught from a very young age that gift giving is a generous deed that doesn't go unnoticed nor unappreciated. In certain circumstances we realize this is true. Money is a key component in donating to specific charities like the Salvation Army and Food Bank, putting a roof over the less fortunates heads and feeding the homeless. But too much, too fast, in a world where it is naturally assumed that bigger is better, and we find ourselves ignoring the REAL meaning behind Christmas. 
 
It's not the genorisity of perfect gift giving that is crucial to maintaining a vibrant Christmas for all to enjoy. It's celebrating the lives of people around us by giving in ways that don't necessarily involve the use of money to buy happiness or love. Sometimes giving from the heart speaks louder than giving from the wallet.
 
So as much as the media's illusory portrayal has good intentions behind advertising the gift giving spirit of Christmas, it has hidden the beautiful significance of Christmas in many ways. For instance, if you ever watched the Oprah Winfrey or Dr. Phil Christmas specials (not to pick on these globally adored TV giants in any way of course because they have done a lot of good for many people) and noticed how the audience's reaction varies on the size and expense of the gift being advertised, you'll see that it is not always consistently enthused. A camera? YAY!! A plasma TV?? Even better!!   A car???   I think I'm in heaven!! A Christmas soundtrack? Uhhhh....I guess I could applaude. So although the idea of being given free gifts sound nice, don't you also think it's a little hypocritical for these international celebrities to emphasize the importance of being grateful for what we're given in life throughout the whole year and yet they contradict those powerful messages by giving materialized goods that are not a necessity top recognition during the Christmas season? As much as we hate to face it it's shows like these that contribute to not just American's spoildness but the spoildness of many people around the world.
 
So if that were to change, if we were to imagine ourselves in the shoes of somebody who has almost no money or anything material wise and we weren't able to afford any Christmas presents, even if it were for just a second, what would be the first thing you'd do in terms of giving from the heart? How would you clearly show Christmas wasn't all about the money and that it was more about thinking of creative ways of making others feel special (even if it isn't someone you know personally)?  Your thoughts please.  

And if I don't have the opportunity to write another blog on here during the month of December

 

 
 

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yes it has been a while since you updated...
 
:o) smiles easy to give away they are free... :o) very contagious... :o) so pass one to anyone ... :o) to people that you love... :o) and even to those you don't... :o) in no time the whole world will be smiling :o)
2 月 10 日
^__^ Merry (belated) Christmas!! If I didn't have any money and wasn't able to afford any presents I'd give everybody a hug ^__^ I think everybody likes hugs occasionally. And some of us don't give or receive hugs regularly. I don't know about you but hugs always make me feel special and loved ^__^ And just in case I can't drop by before new year's HAPPY NEW YEARS!!!!!
12 月 28 日

:o) smiles are contagious...and they are the cheapest presents out there this year...and one of the best as well...pass one to people that you love and those you don't...and soon everyone will be smiling for the holidays... :o)

12 月 22 日
Elizabeth发表:
I asked my 6 year old what she was going to ask Santa for Christmas this year.  She told me a teddy bear and a book. I was like, YES!!!  ;)
Merry Christmas!
12 月 17 日
oh i agree 100%...Kenny was surprise dto hear that i didn't want a birthday  present this year but i also do not want a christmas present...i don't see a point...we bought a house an the fact that we are workingon it to make it our own beats all the spending money on something i maybe don't need....i don't need diamonds, in fact i think they look like chunks of glass...i mean a cheap box pf chocolate and curling up on the couch are perfect to me...i am a simple person...i don't need much to be happy and as long as i have him and my friends and family i need nothing more...except maybe some chocolate...lol...
 
as for the coments i left behind for you i just figured you were busy and haven't had time...expecially since it had been so long since you blogged...anyways...i just knew that you said that i had the keys i had to become a interior decorator and i wondered if i was doign an ok job...

:o) smiles are contagious...pass one to people that you love and those you don't... :o)

12 月 15 日
Kiki发表:
To me, donating from the heart involved donating your time.  Whether it's at a shelter, a hospital or at an 'old folks home'.  I can remember visiting my grandmother at a nursing home after she'd had a car wreck and there were so many people there who had no visitors.  Can you imagine?  None.  My church at that time had a bi-weekly visitation to one and the people acted like it was Christmas every time we could come.  There are so many people out there that don't have anybody.  There are so many people out there that have no hope, no joy.  Donating your time to them gives them joy.  That's the best gift anyone could hope to receive.
 
Merry Christmas!
12 月 15 日

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